Me, newborn. Still at hospital
Dad and me. Still at the hospital after I was born

You would’ve turned 60 today.

But six months ago you died. Six months tomorrow.

I have your birthday card here. I stockpile them during the Christmas sales for the people I need to remember for the year ahead. It is one of my usual sort of selection: there’s a picture of a golfer on the 1st tee, readying to strike the ball up into a perky, shiny sun and happy skies. I bought these sport-themed cards because I hoped you’d like them, what with your general cricketing and sporting fanaticism.

I don’t know who else I’d send it to now. Probably no-one. I’ll keep it in my cabinet.

A lonely card without a recipient.

Happy Birthday xx

karen andrews

Karen Andrews is the creator of this website, one of the most established and well-respected parenting blogs in the country. She is also an author, award-winning writer, poet, editor and publisher at Miscellaneous Press. Her latest book is Trust the Process: 101 Tips on Writing and Creativity