At birth…

The Family

You were huge; I packed without knowing you were going to be so big. We stuffed you inside the wondersuits…

Riley

…until I couldn’t stand it, so you stayed in singlets and was wrapped to sleep. Not that you were cold – it was a hot week; a surprising heat as only Melbourne can turn on in March. Keira sees this photo and asks, “Did you have another baby in your tummy?” and I said, no. I didn’t add your stomach looks like that after giving birth, as crumpled and slack as a blow-up mattress.

Now…

Riley skipping

And now, you skip. You dance. You jump up and down in the dairy aisle singing, “I am a ROCK STAR. I’ve got the ROCK MOVES. And I don’t NEED YOU.”

Happy fourth birthday, my son. My youngest is four. I am beyond staggered.

karen andrews

Karen Andrews is the creator of this website, one of the most established and well-respected parenting blogs in the country. She is also an author, award-winning writer, poet, editor and publisher at Miscellaneous Press. Her latest book is Trust the Process: 101 Tips on Writing and Creativity