keira beach

rockpools

They are drawn to the sand as much as the water, fossicking among the treasures: garlands of ropy sea matter, shells and the odd gasping mollusc, probing its tongue around in the last moments of life, as if trying to determine where on earth it had landed.

In their examination of nature’s detritus, I like to think they are paying a service, honouring and acknowledging these minute life cycles, millions and millions of them, all over the world. That explain why shells are often pocketed by us tourists on this planet – so that we might enjoy their colours, bumps and ridges as a kind of metaphor. For to find a shell, as you might know, that you can put up against your ear and hear the surf is to hit the symphonic jackpot. The music it takes to your head can be as harmonising to the soul as a roomful of skilled voices lifted in song.

As a baby, Keira’s face was dotted with milk pimples; mostly across the tip of her nose. They faded in time, as the baby books reliably predicted. Now, her face is beginning to experience the odd blemish, clogged pore; blackheads sprout on her nose in the very pores I observed when she was younger. They are growing up so fast, it catches my breath.

I still cannot express how much I love this child.

keira

 

Or this child.

jumping

 

These children.

sea shells and cupcakes

Keira and Riley

 

This family.

beach walking

 

But I will keep trying.

karen andrews

Karen Andrews is the creator of this website, one of the most established and well-respected parenting blogs in the country. She is also an author, award-winning writer, poet, editor and publisher at Miscellaneous Press. Her latest book is Trust the Process: 101 Tips on Writing and Creativity